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Jan 23

Written by: Meredith Jones
1/23/2012 11:08 AM 

At Christmas 2010, I distributed $50 to each member of the extended Jones family and asked that they give it away and let me know what they did and why. The family then voted on what they considered to be the best gift, and I made a matching donation to the winning idea. The Family Giving Challenge was born.

The winner was eight-year-old Harris, whose gift to the Jimmy Fund honored his friend Elijah, a youngster with cancer. While it was a great gift, some of my readers wondered whether a small donation to an organization as large as the Jimmy Fund really made a difference. That comment prompted this year’s challenge: to make the biggest difference with $50.

Can small gifts actually make a big difference? To answer that question, I again invited my family to serve as a little laboratory for giving. I wondered whether family members would combine their $50 with others, consider a matching gift or a loan, or propose a grant to support creative projects and people (think Kiva or Kickstarter). I even wondered whether they would find a small organization that does not have access to a variety of funding sources.

All accepted the challenge except five-year-old Meredith, who returned her $50 with nary a comment and raced off to play with GoGo My Walkin’ Pup. Clearly she had not read the article about the relationship between giving and happiness. The electronic puppy was all the happiness she needed.

The gifts have been distributed, and now it’s your turn to vote.

Please let me know which gift you think will make the biggest difference. You can either respond below or email me at mjones@mainecf.org. The winning idea will be announced in the next blog post and will receive a matching gift from yours truly.

Gift #1: Penobscot River Restoration Project
Dana’s $50, plus his own matching gift, has been directed to the Penobscot River Restoration project which, he says, “represents the last best chance of restoring native sea-run fish and cultural and ecological integrity to Maine’s largest river system. This work will make a difference for all time to come.”

Gift #2: Pan Mass Challenge
Ché is giving his gift to the Pan Mass Challenge in honor of a family member (see gift giver #1) who was recently diagnosed with prostate cancer. The challenge donates 100% of its proceeds to the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute through the Jimmy Fund. He said he just might participate in the 100+ mile bike trek later this summer.

Gift #3: Jimmy Fund and Horizons for Homeless Children
Half of Harris’ gift will go to the Jimmy Fund.* The remaining half will go to Horizons for Homeless Children, a group that recruits and trains volunteers to help children living in shelters. In addition to helping the children learn how to play, share, read, and enjoy their world, volunteers help their parents learn how to be nurturing and involved in the growth and development of their children and to help them with job training, GED, and college courses.

Gift #4: Birthday Wishes
Becka’s $50 will support a local, all-volunteer group that hosts birthday parties for homeless children as a way to help them build their self-esteem. The organization has grown to serve more than 165 shelters and transitional living facilities, largely the result of significant volunteer involvement, including young children and their families, scout troops, sports teams, and senior citizens. Because birthday parties are a luxury, some parents don’t even tell their children that they have a birthday.

Gift #5: Heifer International
Mark and Izabel have combined their funds and will help people in developing countries have a sustainable source of income and food. Unlike other global relief charities, Heifer has embraced a distinctive community-building, long-term sustainability approach. Recipients agree to share the offspring of gift animals with others in need, making them equal partners with Heifer in the fight to end world hunger and reinforcing the notion of “paying it forward.”

Which one of the five gifts do you think will make the biggest difference?

* While most of us think “Red Sox” and “Boston” when the Jimmy Fund is mentioned, you might not know that the original “Jimmy,” Einar Gustafson, was from New Sweden, Maine. (Thanks to Marion Kane for the tip).

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24 comment(s) so far...

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

This is a thoughtful collection of recipients. I can totally understand and support gifts 1 through 3. Personally I believe helping should start in our own backyard. Having said that, my emotional choice is Birthday Wishes. Who can predict what sort of difference a party may make in a person's life when they are on hard times? On the other hand I have donated to and read up on the Heifer project which has a far-reaching effect on communities. Biggest difference...gift #5

By Susan on   1/23/2012 2:05 PM

Who can resist birthday parties for kids??????????

What I love about this contest is that there are no losers! (Of course, mine should win, but I think Harris will win because he's cuter than I am.)




By Becka on   1/23/2012 2:06 PM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

I think the gift to Penobscot River Restoration is the most bang for the buck, largely because the organization is smaller than the others. Additionally, I like to give to local organizations because the results are easy or at least easier to see. And lastly, because Maine is a state with a small population, the cachement area for Penobscot River Restoration to gather funds from is smaller than the others'.

By Alice wilkinson on   1/23/2012 2:23 PM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

I'd personally go with Heifer International. The gift of a farm animal -- a means to eat, and a means to earn money -- will go much longer and farther to create sustainable community.

Did you know that the Heifer Project actually has a project going in the U.S., too? Seeds of Change in Arkansas and Appalachia is based in a lot of the same beliefs and knowledge the Maine Community Foundation applies in its own work "investing in Maine." Read more about Seeds of Change here: secure1.heifer.org/fund-a-project/usa-seeds-of-change.html

By JaneA Kelley on   1/23/2012 2:11 PM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

Cancer research, fish restoration, and feeding the hungry are all worthy, but the Birthday Wishes will be the winner. If Harris had chosen just the Horizons for Homeless Children I would have chosen that as the winner.

By Karen on   1/23/2012 2:46 PM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

Biggest bang for the buck would probably be the Heifer Project (also it is a gift that keeps on giving both milk and offspring). That said, the Penobscot River Restoration Project will also have a permanent impact for Maine. Disclosure: I serve on the Board of the Maine Nature Conservancy which is one of the major sponsors of that project!

By Marion Kane on   1/23/2012 3:19 PM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

My first vote goes to Meredith who has already had a large impact on her family by encouraging them to think philanthropically.

This year I vote for the Birthday Party. I think the dollars will have greater impact because the program is done by volunteers.

By Anne on   1/23/2012 3:46 PM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

I tend to agree with Anne; this project will likely have the most impact on Meredith's family. How fantastic that Harris has a Meredith in his life to help shape his world view and to see the bigger picture at such an early age.

That said, my vote is for Heifer. But Harris's selection of Horizons for Homeless Children was a close second.

By Morgan on   1/24/2012 9:42 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving


As director of a non profit I can tell you that all donations make a difference. The greatest difference is in the lives that benefit from the donations to organizations. I would vote for #4 Birthday Parties, it will affect a child's present and their future as well. The will learn the joy of giving first hand.

A wonderful family venture!!

By Ida W. Page on   1/24/2012 9:42 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

I tend to agree with Anne; this project will likely have the most impact on Meredith's family. How fantastic that Harris has a Meredith in his life to help shape his world view and to see the bigger picture at such an early age.

That said, my vote is for Heifer. But Harris's selection of Horizons for Homeless Children was a close second.

By Morgan on   1/24/2012 9:42 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

Jimmy Fund,but there are other good choices

By Jim Geary on   1/24/2012 9:42 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

Penobscot River Restoration Project, it is local, and this is something that will help for generations to come.

By Jessica on   1/24/2012 9:42 AM

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I vote for becka's idea. The money will go further and not get lost in administrative costs of the mega charities.

By becky grant-widen on   1/24/2012 9:42 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

The Birthday gift, every child needs all the love they can get, what a loving act for a child that would not feel so loved and honored otherwise. What more can be done than to recognize a child on their special day - the day they joined the rest of us.

By Jo Eaton on   1/24/2012 10:32 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

Penobscot River Restoration. I know the organization and admire their work. I love the other choices, but I'm thinking local here.

By Carl on   1/25/2012 9:10 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

Wonderful and thoughtful idea, Merideth! Every one is a winner.
Harris's ideas of the Jimmy Fund in support of his friend Elijah(what a personal impact for both) and Horizons for Homeless Children pulled at my heartstrings. When I was his age I knew nothing about either cancer or homelessness. What a different world our young people face, and this was an ingenious way to help them prepare for their role for it.

By Ann Morton on   1/26/2012 10:29 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

The idea of gift # 5 was Mark's and is the best. I was happy to offer my $50 bucks on top of his. That being said, in case of the validity of my vote being questioned, I'd like to cast my alternative vote: # 4! Birthday Parties are so important but taken for granted.

By Izabel on   1/26/2012 10:29 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

I vote for Penobscot River Restoration. Great local project and a little bit of funding goes a long way!

By Cathy on   1/26/2012 3:29 PM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

#3.5 Horizons for Homeless Children. In the last couple of years, the work of the informal group of Early Childhood Funders in Maine has really opened my eyes to the fact? perception? belief? that there is no greater investment to be made than in "our" children, particularly those without sufficient resources. See attached story about N.Y. science award finalist who was living in a homeless shelter. www.contracostatimes.com/nation-world/ci_19739335.

By Carolyn Wollen on   1/30/2012 10:27 AM

Heifer

My vote goes for Heifer. Most bang for the buck.

By Mark Yturregui on   1/30/2012 10:27 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

Birthday Wishes !!! simplicity is wonderful :P

By Izabel on   2/2/2012 3:39 PM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

all great organizations! but i have to agree with Izabel. simple, and yet so significant in a child's life. #4 birthday wishes!

By Jesse on   2/3/2012 1:44 PM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

Meredith, What a great idea! I vote for the Penobscot for all of the reasons mentioned above.

And Thanks to You for sharing your idea.

By Wendall on   2/17/2012 9:02 AM

Re: A Little Laboratory for Giving

As I plan two birthday parties for my soon to be 8- and soon to be 5-year-old -- two kids who have SO much -- the kids birthday project just inspires me. We've already requested no gifts for my kids' b-day parties...now I have the perfect suggestion for guests who are feeling generous. Thanks for the great post, and the great example of family giving, Meredith!

By Elizabeth Myrick on   2/17/2012 9:02 AM

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