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Once I Married a Tattooed Lady

If you listen to the Maine Public Broadcasting Network, you know that June is Music that Moves ME month, featuring stories of listeners’ special connection to music. In a bit of shameless promotion, the Maine Community Foundation is a proud sponsor. Music evokes a broad array of memories for most of us. In fact, just last week MPBN featured my colleague Andrea Nemitz’s poignant, heartwarming story of her connection to Joni Mitchell and the love of her life, husband Bill. Even though my sisters and husband would say I’ve never heard a lyric I could repeat, I have my own story of music that – yup, it’s true – moves me. My introduction to Maine as a youngster was the thousand-mile family adventure that took us from the suburbs of Pittsburgh to the shores of Lake Pocomoonshine in Alexander. All seven members of the Jones family and a week’s worth of clothes, books, food, and games were loaded into the 1958 silver blue Chevy Impala station wagon with Salem and Chester ...

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Posted: Monday, June 22, 2015

Ask and Ye Shall (Most Likely) Receive

Two weeks ago the focus of the Real Time blog was my fantasy graduation speech. Last week that fantasy became reality when I delivered a shorter version to recent graduates of the Maine NEW Leadership program at the Margaret Chase Smith Policy Center. The goal of the NEW Leadership program is to increase representation of women in politics by giving Maine undergraduate students the skills necessary to become the next generation of well-trained and knowledgeable civic and political leaders. Returning home from my speech – the proud senior counselor able to impart her wisdom and experience – I put my feet up and grabbed a book given to me a few months back by Robin Lin Hodgskin, a Maine Women’s Fund board member and senior vice president at Morgan Stanley. Robin described Women Don’t Ask: Negotiation and the Gender Divide by Linda Babcock and Sara Laschever as one of the most important books she’d ever read. After reading the first ten pages, I needed no additional convincing. ...

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Posted: Monday, June 08, 2015

Speak up. Stand up. Stand out.

Among my many fantasies is delivering the perfect college commencement address that inspires graduates to take charge and make meaning of their lives. It is the spring season of college graduations, and I’ve prepared my remarks just in case I get a call. Thank you for this honor and opportunity to congratulate you for your remarkable achievements. For many years I have been involved in higher education as a learner, parent supporter, funder, advocate, and tuition check writer. I myself completed my undergraduate degree as a 34-year-old commuter student, full-time worker, and single parent of two. I know how hard you have worked to earn this degree. Most of you have simultaneously juggled a job, parenting, and classes. You have worried about paying the rent and tuition while putting food on the table. Your parents and partners have worried right along with you. But take a deep breath, hold your heads high, and know that the world is yours. Ten years from now, most jobs in the hig ...

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Posted: Tuesday, May 26, 2015

Living on a “Raceberg”

I think former Maine Community Foundation board member Donna Loring said it best: “Being Indian in the State of Maine is like living on an iceberg of racism – a raceberg.” Last week the school board in SAD 54 voted to retain its Indian mascot in spite of pleas from members and allies of the Wabanaki tribes who argued that the image is racist, that they are people – and that people are not mascots. While the majority in the contentious debate cited tradition and respect for Native people, board members also reported being threatened that they would not be re-elected were they to vote to change the mascot. The school board’s decision evokes for me a range of emotions—unlike Liz Neptune, a member of the Passamaquoddy tribe and current member of our board of directors, who told me that if she became emotional about every similar incident she faces on a daily basis, she would have difficulty functioning.  I am a big fan of tradition, and it is with much fondness that I ...

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Posted: Monday, May 11, 2015

Measures of Growth, Levels of Distress

Data is my friend. I hear this from my colleagues in the foundation world, from many members of the staff at the Maine Community Foundation, and I know it from my own experience. Data reminds me of Aroostook farmer Andy Ayer's mantra "If you can’t measure it, you can’t manage it.”   I realize that much of our work at MaineCF does not always lend itself to quick and easy quantification, but we have dedicated more time and resources to using data (both quantitative and qualitative) to shape decision-making. Next month we will be mailing a copy of Measuring Up, a Maine Community Foundation special report – with data – that outlines our work toward achieving our vision of a high quality of life for all Maine people. You can download a copy of the report at our website As I dug into my growing reading pile the other day, it was with more than a passing interest that I picked out Measures of Growth 2015, a publication of the Maine Economic Growth Council and the Maine Deve ...

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Posted: Sunday, April 26, 2015

Take Me Out to the Budget Game

I can’t decide which of the following nail-biting dramas is more important – or more interesting: These first few games of the 2015 baseball season, especially last Friday night’s 19-inning win over the Evil Empire, or the competing budget and tax proposals making their way through the Maine Legislature. Both make for great theater, are annual rites of spring (such as it is), have high-stakes outcomes, and – if history is any predictor – yield an ending that will sorely disappoint (for one side or the other). Is the Red Sox win in New York last Friday a sign of good things to come? Does agreement between the Ds and Rs about the importance of tax reform signal across-the-aisle compromise and agreement? I haven’t a clue. The Magic 8 Ball knows but is not telling. There is little disagreement among experts about the need for fundamental tax reform, some agreement about the ultimate outcome, and lots of disagreement about the approach. I’m not a tax expert, but some ...

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Posted: Monday, April 13, 2015

What's a Leader to Do?

Leadership is a topic of both personal and professional interest. It is one of three goals in the Maine Community Foundation’s Plan for the Future, and it is an essential component of the vibrant communities that we at the foundation spend every day thinking about and nurturing. Last week, I participated in a panel discussion focused on women’s leadership, the first in a weeklong series of events to celebrate the 150th anniversary of the University of Maine and the installation on March 26 of the university’s first woman president, Dr. Susan Hunter. Moderated by Carol Kim, the university’s vice president for research and dean of the graduate school, the panel included Emily Cain, Elizabeth Sutherland, and me.   To prepare for the panel, we were encouraged to read about Centered Leadership, the work of Joanna Barsh of McKinsey & Co. Through years of data collection, study, and evaluation, Barsh has identified five characteristics of the most effective leaders. They are: ...

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Posted: Monday, March 30, 2015

Ms. Young Goes to Washington

I often say that Maine is the place to be every month of the year…except March. That’s why I enthusiastically volunteered to visit Washington, D.C., to promote philanthropy last week at the aptly named Foundations on the Hill. As Congress considers tax reform and the new budget, participants went to the Hill to highlight how communities depend on a full set of philanthropic tools to meet pressing needs. My visit was filled with legislative briefings and meetings in the offices of Maine’s four senators and representatives. In addition to telling stories of the impact of philanthropy in Maine and the generosity of our inspiring donors, I also promoted the charitable deduction, the importance of donor-advised funds, and the need to make the charitable IRA rollover permanent. Good news on that last item: Senator Susan Collins is co-sponsoring a bill to make the charitable IRA rollover a permanent philanthropic option. My biggest surprise from this visit was the number of Hill staffers who ...

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Posted: Tuesday, March 24, 2015

What Would Ellen Do?

My colleague Ellen Pope is retiring after more than 16 years at the foundation. Her departure at the end of March falls on the heels of our co-worker Pam Cleghorn’s retirement last December and precedes my own intention to step down at the end of this year. With a combined 48 years of philanthropic wisdom and knowledge, we three – among the most senior staff in terms of tenure, age, and hair color – are also among the most outspoken and opinionated. Will the foundation survive our departures? You bet. Rest assured we leave behind a fabulous group of fully capable, talented colleagues who will be joined by my successor. It is they who will shepherd the foundation to its next future. Ellen and I have been two peas in the proverbial pod since I was elected president in 2009. Our unique styles complement one another; together they’ve made magic. She is the best project manager ever, able to pay equal attention to the product and the process. She makes lists. She is prepared. She can disa ...

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Posted: Monday, March 09, 2015

Is Attitude Everything?

With gale force winds and swirling snow that has found its way underneath the front door into the hallway here at 7 Cedar, I think I will explode if my sainted spouse says one more time with a snarky smile that attitude is everything. It’s too dangerous to venture out on the road, too cold and windy to ski or run (a few of my other not-so-favorite activities), and with the forecast for more snow on Wednesday, I am forced to dig into my deepest reserves to exhibit a positive outlook. This bi-weekly blog provides me with a platform to whine about the weather, brag about the cool things taking place in communities throughout the state, promote generosity, and invite readers to join me in exploring some of the ideas and issues Maine faces. Today’s bleak and stark white view from my dining room window, compounded by a book and article sent to me by different colleagues who must figure I’m at a point in my life that I need to pay attention, provoke a few thoughts about attitude. Atul Gawande ...

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Posted: Tuesday, February 17, 2015
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